You’re not able to let go because go because you’re desperate for stability.

Circa 2005, amidst the NYC night lights of NYC, I was standing outside what appeared be a church but in reality was a popular nightclub of the time, The Limelight. A handsome young gentleman approached me in hopes to find one of life's most puzzling questions, "What are the mechanisms of letting go?"

The church turned nightclub happened to be the perfect setting, almost as if it were staged and yet impactful enough for me to reflect on that moment over and over again in hopes to find the answer to "What are the mechanisms of letting go?"

The concept of "letting go" touches nearly everyone at one point or another. The ending of a relationship, the ending of a job, the loss of a pet and a loved one, or even getting rid of a dress that no longer fits, to name a few.

The mechanism of letting go is abstract, yet I have found this challenge of letting go is rooted in a deep desire for stability. If you can figure out how to find internal stability, letting go will become part of the great adventure of life.

Hint - it’s an inside job,